Are you ready to start dating again? Are you looking Mr. or Mrs. right this time? That is great! I hope you will find the right person for you. In this post, I give you a few tips if you want to start dating again so you don’t set the bar too high for yourself and your dates. So you can just enjoy your dating time because it is the most important thing, I believe. You should have fun while you are dating.
Tips if you want to start dating again
Stop worrying if this person likes you or not. You can not control their feelings. Just think about how YOU feel about this person. Is this person someone you like? Do you think it can be the start of something beautiful? Focus on your own feelings.
Rejection is okay
Rejection does not mean you are not worth it and you are not beautiful. Rejection can be painful but it is more about if this person can see a future with you. You will eventually realize that. Dating is about finding out if someone is compatible with you or not. And rejection is just a part of it. It is not personal, it is not about you. It is about their feelings and this person is not feeling it.
Stop chasing people who don’t like you
Have you ever had a crush on someone and this person rejected you? Accept it and move on. I see so many people chasing this other person and trying so hard to like them. But they said ‘no’ you just have to accept it. It is not worth it. You don’t want that kind of drama in your life. It is literally a waste of time and in the meantime, your dream person is waiting for you.
Is it a psychical attraction or it is more than that
When a person looks amazing and you are attracted to this person, it doesn’t mean that this person is the right one for you. I once had a crush on someone beautiful and I thought he would be my prince on the white horse. But then I got to know him and I realized that he wasn’t the one for me. I liked him but he had a lot of those weird moods. I think it is important you connect with your date and not just on a psychical level. My dream relation is to be in a relationship with someone who is also my best friend.
Nobody is perfect
Nobody is perfect. I think there is always something ‘wrong’ with someone. It sounds like a bad thing, but I think it can be also a good thing. I think when you like someone, you will accept those flaws. You don’t care if this person is perfect or not. But when you start dating don’t set the bar too high. Not for your date but also not for yourself. Because ‘perfect’ doesn’t exist and if you are kept waiting for the perfect man, you will be disappointed eventually.